Harry, like every boy, loves the outdoors. I took him to the park on Friday and after an hour of just walking around I decided it was time to go; Harry threw a huge fit! I get bored if I am outside by myself with Harry. I know that is awful but, I can throw a ball and watch him run around for so long. I have a feeling I better just get use to it! Here are a few shots before life group tonight.
Harry is becoming more independent. It seems like we hold his hand and let him walk more than we carry him. I will be honest and say I like having a baby on my hip more than a big boy trying to let go of my hand. I am going to start praying that I take these stages gracefully and enjoy how Harry is now and not what he use to be! I will say Harry is a very cool kid! I can't help but appreciate the cute funny personality he seems to have; although Harry does have his moments!
Harry has hit a stage I am not prepared for! He acts like a toddler! I don't really think a 1 year old is necessarily a toddler but, maybe what I think is wrong! We went to Abuelo's with the Millers and he would not sit down, he wanted to be on the floor moving and making noises at all times! I admit I am not as patient Chad is; thank goodness I have him! He is better about dealing with Harry's behavior in public. The 2nd incident that has shown me the things to come was in worship service this morning. He insisted on yelling and throwing everything on the floor and hitting me with his toys! The last thing that I don't really mind as much is the big mess he made in my classroom today. He chewed up a magic marker and got it all over the floor! I really don't care that much, it is nontoxic and comes off the floors easily. I just need to be watching him more often and lighten up; I feel like when we are in public people are super annoyed. Any advice into going into this stage, I don't' think he understands many punishments and he gets his feelings hurt if we scold him. I admit I am not a big fan of spanking Harry yet. I am reading the most amazing book that helps you to establish biblical values into your children; Harry has a few more months before he can understand the tactics to doing that. Anyway, advice is welcomed!!
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Harry is such a sweetheart!
We had so much fun at Abuelos! I don't have any advice but I do think that when a child cries or fusses a little in public it always makes the mom more paranoid and frustrated than anything!
You're doing an awesome job!
What is the book that you are reading? I have no advice but I'm sure I will be asking you for advice when the boys are his age. Honestly, most people in public are looking at Harry and thinking how cute he is but I know it's hard not to get frustrated. The fact that you are even concerned shows that you are a great mom!
You better fix that harry through a fit to threw before mom catches it! He's gorgeous, I am obsessed with his good looks and personality!
Oh Amanda...I can so reason with you!! Tayson is going through this same stage right now!! I almost don't want to go out to dinner or anything because he is constantly trying to climb out of the highchair or stroller and yells or screams really loud if I try and make him stay in it!!! I always feel like people are annoyed with us!! Yesterday morning, we went out to breakfast and the little boy at the table next to us, cried the whole time. Tayson sat and stared at him the whole time like "Why are you crying??" Justin and I thought it was so funny that he was so interested in that little boy crying because he is usually that baby!! We also have that Tonka truck, but we have the smaller ones and Tayson LOVES them!! He is always pushing them around the house!!
Harry is a doll. He looks like he is always having fun:) All their fussy, fit stages of life seem to be just phases and they move on through it and are great on the other side. Katie is 2 so we have hit the temper phase and it is so not fun but we will survive (hopefully:)).
Ha, asking me for advice is a joke. Let me be the first to know when you find something that ends all fits!
I love this post because it is real! I can't stand when people try to act like their kids are perfect (even though I surely think Harry is and you must be lying)! I think it shows Harry's BIG personality!!!
I thought of you today when I was at the park and bored after 30 minutes, too. But I'm sure that when we are all together at the park 30 minutes will fly by. Only then, right?!
Bring the tonka trunk, too if you can. Adalie says she wants to play with it if it is Harry's favorite!
Can't wait to see him in person and kiss that sweet sweet face!
Thanks for the encouragement! Two fit throwers is out of my league! I look forward to it getting easier! Kim, we will have to bring Adalie a pink Tonka truck...we may have to pimp her truck!
We're there girl! We've had a few issues at restaurants, but we just be sure to bring something that will keep her busy, a toy, or something. She loves the sugar packets on the tables at restaurants, and she loves to people watch. But when it goes south, I just try to remember that this too shall pass...lol Good luck!
All I can say is be prepared to shrug off all those who get annoyed...I've had to learn to discipline when I feel it's appropriate and not care when I sense others feel I should do something differently regarding my children. Harry is at a VERY fun age and he's learning his boundaries - ha ha - you will definitely have to loosen up because chewed up markers and destroyed rooms will most likely become the "norm" for the next year or so! :) Just know you aren't the only mom who occasionally loses her patience or needs to take a step back...oh yeah - and my hubby has more patience then I do as well - I can totally relate! I know you are doing a fantastic job with Harry - he's just a BOY - and boys are busy, busy, busy!! :) Harry's jeans are adorable by the way...I'm obsessed with little boys jeans and the pair he has on in those pics are precious!
I feel ya pain about misbehaving in public and feeling like everyone's annoyed. I agree with Lindsey, I'm learning to try to ignore and discipline when I think it's appropriate in the way I think is appropriate! I'm LEARNING! :) James has that Tonka truck, too, but I think I like it more than James! It's not one he's real interested in.
I wish I had advice for you! I know one day you will be one of the first I will go to for mom questions.
I kinda want to play with the tonka truck too.
We do not have the Tonka Truck. I'll have to check into that! :)
Harry is SO CUTE!!! He's really lost that "baby" look and now definitely looks like a handsome little boy.
I think Lindsey gave great advice about trying to let things roll off your shoulders and disciplining when YOU (not the nosey person at the restaurant or store) think it's appropriate. You're a great mom and Harry is SO blessed to have you and Chad as parents! Keep up the good work :)
holy cow...i just looked at the title of your blog (like i have a billion times before!) and it just clicked! i for sure will not be naming my blog: steece, love, and happiness!! jeez, what a copy cat, eh? haha! LOVE your updates..miss you!
Amanda, thanks for the great advice - the chicken stir fry meals...are those in the freezer section?! I'm thinking that's going to become a big hit for our family in the near future (he-he!). I really appreciate your encouraging words - I definitely took them to heart!...have a great weekend!!
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